So there’s this guy. He wants monogamy. That’s his condition. Monogamy in exchange for a relationship. And I’m crazy enough to consider it…but only after I know we’ll work out together. I mean, how can he expect me to give up 2 relationships with 2 really amazing men…before we’ve even met! How can he expect me to take such a huge risk? I’ve told him I was willing to be his and only his…but only after we had gotten to know each other.
But now I feel like he’s really pushing for me to give up my other relationships now. If he can be the sort of man that can fulfill all my needs then of course I’d be his…but I’m not sure he’s willing to find out if he’s that man. He said it’d make him feel like a failure…but, aren’t I worth it? He said he would conquer my heart. He said he’d prove himself to me…but suddenly he’s not willing to do those things. Why can’t I find a guy who’s willing to fight for me? A guy who loves me so much he’ll be willing to prove that he’s the only guy for me. I really hope this guy changes his mind about me. I think he could possibly be the one to fulfill all my needs…but it looks like I may never find out.